I am Grace Cordial. My role is to manage all BDC workers, volunteers, operations, and projects. I have two Library Science degrees from the University of South Carolina, did graduate work at the University of North Carolina Chapel Hill in American history, and earned an undergraduate degree Summa Cum Laude in history from Newberry College. I am a certified archivist. I am a white 10th generation South Carolinian woman of Anglo and Western European descent in my sixth decade. I identify as working middle class. I am privileged to hold higher education degrees and was the first person of my extended family to go to college. I have worked for the Beaufort County Library system for over 26 years first as a Reference librarian and then as the manager of its special local history collection and archives unit.
At present, I have a dozen grandchildren spread out from Virginia to Indiana to Sydney, Australia whom I don't get to see nearly as often as I would like. My sons are officers in the US military. One daughter works for the Department of Homeland Security while my other daughter is an IT project manager for an international bank and investment firm abroad. Three of my children have Master's degrees in their areas of expertise of computer science, project management, logistics, and international relations. I have sons-in-law and a daughter-in-law who appear to like me just fine. (At least they let me into their houses). I've heard tell that a second daughter-in-law is quite likely on the near horizon.
I have a sister and two nieces plus a large extended family mostly based in coastal South Carolina. My parents died in the 2010s. I was reared a Lutheran, graduated from a small Lutheran college, and attend St. Peter's Catholic Church.
I've traveled to Ireland and Northern Ireland on multiple occasions to see in-laws; stood on the spot where Anne Boleyn lost her head in the Tower of London; visited the Sistine Chapel - but not nearly for as long as I would have liked; and have seen parts of Australia three times so far. The most beautiful place that I have ever beheld is Glendalough National Park in Wicklow, Ireland. But I am going out to the Rocky Mountains soon so Glendalough's status may experience a setback. The jury is still out on that one.
I spent so much time in libraries growing up I figured someone should pay me for it. Walking alone the two blocks to the Georgetown County Library was my first taste of independence when I was a youngster. I became a librarian and archivist because I prefer working indoors, like books, churches, cemeteries and other old "stuff". I also like to understand why people make the decisions that they make. Documents help with that. I like what archaeologists do and discover, but I do not have the patience or inclination to be one. I could, however, probably work for a funeral home because death is simply another phase of life.
I like movies. My favorite movie is Forrest Gump - but mostly because of its great soundtrack. Come to think on it - In fact, I may like soundtracks more than the movies themselves. I watch It's a Wonderful Life each and every Christmas Eve. My favorite actor is Robert Duval - though Cillian Murphy just might overtake him. The Wind that Shakes the Barley is my favorite Murphy movie. And who isn't both fascinated and appalled by Tommy Shelby of Peaky Blinders?
And speaking of television, I was an early fan of the original Walking Dead series. The "Rick Grimes in the helicopter" part reminded me too much of the "Bobby Ewing in the shower" plot twist on Dallas that I sort of stopped watching TWD after that. My favorite TWD character is Daryl Dixon. (Hoopla, the Library's streaming service now includes his spin-off series. Yeah!). I am anxiously awaiting the conclusion of Outlander - though I find Claire quite annoying. I've read all the Bridgerton novels and watched the series on Netflix. (Season 3 is my favorite -so far). I am currently watching past episodes of The Good Doctor, and current episodes of NCIS Origins and Will Trent. My go-to-for-chilling-out-television-mini-series are Lonesome Dove and Band of Brothers.
My favorite books as an adult are Games of the Hangman by Victor O'Reilly (1991) and Guns of the South by Harry Turtledove (1992). My favorite books during my youth were Johnny Tremain by Esther Forbes (1943) and Ben and Me by Robert Lawson (1939). I like sweeping historical fiction and character driven historical-fantasy fiction. Accordingly, I've read all of the Saxon series about Uhtred of Bebbanburg (I am so "Team Uhtred"); all the published Game of Thrones books (X2) - favorite character Sansa Stark - but I, like many others, just hope that GRRM can finish the series before he dies. I thoroughly enjoyed John Jakes' American Bicentennial series when I was a teenager. I've particularly liked Mary Stewart's Merlin Trilogy and books by Leon Uris and Edward Rutherford among others at various points in my life. I have read all of the Harry Potter series by J.K. Rowling at least thrice - and seen the movies even more often. My favorite character is Neville Longbottom.
In spite of the above long list of fantasy and historical fiction, I prefer to read works of non-fiction in my spare time such as histories about diseases, World War II and how to prepare for a good retirement. I tend to read more for information than for escape into other worlds. Indeed, the works of Barbara Tuchman and the enthusiasm of my high school teacher Mrs. McKinney for all things American history ultimately led me to my career.
If I could eat dinner with any person living or dead, I would choose Benjamin Franklin. I've always found Ben Franklin fascinating as an historical figure and as a human being. And he is purported to have enjoyed the company of women at a time when many men saw the distaff as merely necessary means for reproductive purposes.
My aspirations are to set up my eventual successor for success by leaving the BDC in as good a shape as possible before I exit the building on my last shift; to get to know my grandchildren better - and to give them the opportunity to know me as a human being; and to see a bit more of this multi-cultured world before I leave it. On my bucket list for retirement: Prague; Nuremburg; the beaches at Normandy; New Zealand; Scotland and an around-the-world cruise - but I probably should take one of those shorter 8 - 15 days Viking cruises in Europe first - when stability returns to where my funds for fun are invested. I plan to keep on going as long as my health and money hold out.
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I graduated high school in 2020 with so many plans for my future, but life has a way of intervening in all sorts of ways. One of the most significant happened when my boyfriend enlisted in the Marine Corps, a part of our plan, but military life is something you can never be fully prepared for. We did long distance for about a year while he completed his schooling. We got married almost four years ago, and I officially moved to Beaufort a few months after the wedding. After settling down and adopting our (now) 100-pound Saint Bernard/Lab mix, Watson, I was finally able to finish my Associate's degree. I plan to return to school in order to earn Bachelor's and Master's one day as I really really love school.
I was born and raised in Harford County, Maryland. I grew up on a small farm where we cared for horses and one donkey named Jack (my grandmother waited until after I moved to get even more fun animals like chickens and goats... so not fair, but I love you anyways, DeeDee). I learned to ride horses from a very early age and even competed in shows. I started dancing at the age of three and continued to dance for the next ten years. I dabbled in tap, jazz, ballet, lyrical, hip-hop, and was even part of a competition team for five years. I also played lacrosse for about seven years (which I loved) and field hockey for about three years (which I did not love as much). As you can see, I was a very busy bee growing up. I could not have done any of it without my amazing mom (I know she is reading this, so I wanted to give her a shoutout. I love you!!!!).
I was heavily involved in music, primarily band, growing up. I played the flute and piccolo and was drum major in my high school’s marching band. It was actually where my husband and I met! We were the cutest, dorkiest band couple in the world. Music has always been important to me throughout my life. I believe it was what sparked my love for poetry. I love the rhythm and flow of poems and how expressive poets can be with their writing. I remember having a very worn copy of Alfred Tennyson’s “The Princess” as a child. When I was really young, I only enjoyed looking at the illustrations. Once I was a little bit older and began to pick up on the patterns of poetry, I fell in love. I would write my own short poems or “songs” and pair them with extremely out of tune guitar notes (sorry, mom). Every now and then I have thoughts that I would love to turn into poems, but for now I stick to reading them. I have really enjoyed the poetry section in the BDC. I have a few favorites, but I think my number one is Realities and Imaginations... a Poem by Robert Woodward Barnwell, Sr.
When I am not working, I love to spend time with my family- aka my husband, Brandon, and our dog. We recently moved to Port Royal, and we have really fallen in love with it; I can see us being there for many years to come. We love to go on family walks, play board and video games together, and we have recently been on a big movie kick. We have been going back and forth picking from our favorite movies growing up. On my own, I love reading, hiking and crafting. For the past few months, I have been making trinkets out of air-dry clay. More recently, thanks to our programs with Jade Weaver and the Sea Island Quilters, I have been embroidering in my spare time. I genuinely love listening to all kinds of music, especially the Beatles and Taylor Swift (I know how to have fun, unlike Cassandra). I have a huge green thumb; my favorite plant has always been the string of pearls. Speaking of green, it is also my favorite color. And speaking of favorites, here are a few extremely random favorite things of mine: dragons, Lorelai Gilmore, Tim Burton movies, matcha, Lincolnshire Posy by Percy Grainger, and poutine.
Cassandra, Sydney and I hope you’ve enjoyed this glimpse into our personal biographies, interests, and aspirations.
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